Let Bygones Be Bygones - Meaning, Origin

Meaning of ‘Let Bygones Be Bygones’

This is an English phrase that is said when someone wants past problems to be forgotten about and they desire to go back to being on friendly terms.

Example: Rick usually has a cool temper, but yesterday I saw him snap at his employer. Now he is worried about losing his job because of what happened. However, this morning his employer told him: “I’m willing to let bygones be bygones this time around.”

In other words, he was willing to let go of what happened and forget about it.

Synonyms / Similar Phrases: bury the hatchet, forgive and forget, kiss and make up

The Origin of ‘Let Bygones Be Bygones’

Before we talk about the origin of the phrase ‘let bygones be bygones,’ let us first touch briefly on this word and what it means. Indeed, what does the word “bygone” mean, anyway? It is something that is in the past. So it could be a person you used to know, an event that happened, or maybe an old memory. For example, let’s say you were having a conversation and some old roommates you used to live with were brought up. If you didn’t want to talk about them, you might say: “I don’t want to talk about old bygones.”

According to Dictionary.com, the origin of the word “bygone” is somewhere between 1375-1425. Unfortunately, during my search I was unable to find any examples of this word being used in those years. From what I could find, the word’s earliest known appearance is in the Shakespeare play The Winter’s Tale, 1611:

“The by-gone day proclaim’d: say this to him.”

What about the full phrase “let bygones be bygones”? Its first known use is in a work by Samuel Rutherford, 1636:

“Pray that byegones betwixt me and my Lord may be byegones.”

Since this expression dates back to 1636, that would make it, at minimum, 384 years old. Lots of phrases come and go in that amount of time. However, this one is still around and is commonly used today.

Tip: If you want to find more old sayings similar to this one, Know Your Phrase has a list of phrases starting with “L” that you can browse. Check it out!

Sentence Examples

I know we’ve had our differences in the past, but what do you say we let bygones be bygones and work together on this assignment?

Similar Examples:

We both said things that we regret last night. However, today is a new day, so maybe we should forgive and forget the whole thing and move on?
I haven’t seen my friend, George, in years. We went our separate ways after a heated dispute, but he’s apologized since then so maybe it’s time we bury the hatchet.